<figure><div class="img-wrapper"><img alt="https://img.particlenews.com/image.php?url=3XRHeJ_0ihNjH2L00" style="width:100%" src="https://img.particlenews.com/image.php?type=thumbnail_580x000&amp;url=3XRHeJ_0ihNjH2L00" data-credit="nd3000/istockphoto" data-externalurl="https://www.istockphoto.com/es/foto/par-tener-argumentos-y-problemas-sexuales-en-la-cama-gm1081961824-290150813?phrase=Troubled%20couple" width="2048" height="1366" ><div class="img-subtitle"><a href="https://www.istockphoto.com/es/foto/par-tener-argumentos-y-problemas-sexuales-en-la-cama-gm1081961824-290150813?phrase=Troubled%20couple">nd3000/istockphoto</a></div></div></figure>Nowadays, monogamy is often accepted as the norm in romantic relationships. If you find the one, you marry them. Next, a wedding is planned. There you have it! You've finally found the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. This could provide some solace as a happily ever after. This may not be a trap for some, but it may seem and feel like one to others. <a href="https://www.thezoereport.com/wellness/do-open-relationships-work" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color:#4A90E2">Open relationships</a> are one of the alternatives available to those who feel constrained by monogamy.<nbtemplate data-id="AdPlaceholder" data-content="JTdCJTdE"></nbtemplate>This topic was raised in a recent online <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/y41tbk/my_fiance_wants_to_try_an_open_relationship/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=android_app&amp;utm_name=androidcss&amp;utm_term=1&amp;utm_content=share_button" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color:#4A90E2">post</a> by a woman whose fiance requested that both of them try to engage in an <a href="https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-an-open-relationship-4177930" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color:#4A90E2">open relationship</a>, which she found bizarre and felt like their relationship was already ruined.She opens her post under the username throw_RA_openlysad by stating that she doesn't know what to do. She is 25, and her fiance is 24; they have been together for three years, with their fourth anniversary approaching in March. Her fiance proposed to her a few months earlier, and she happily accepted. That he is "the one" for her is something she has long believed. There are countless ways in which he impresses her, and she has the distinct impression that he shares the same opinion.They planned to watch last recent episode of Rings of Power while eating takeout they had delivered last night. He was acting quite strangely, not talking much and fidgeting constantly.<nbtemplate data-id="AdPlaceholder" data-content="JTdCJTdE"></nbtemplate>He generally sits quietly and untensely, but this time he started tapping his fingers and bouncing his leg. About halfway through the show, he stops and says he wants to discuss something really serious. She felt her stomach drop at the sound of his voice of nervousness but reassured him that everything would be fine and to just tell her what was going on.He stated he had been thinking about the fact that she was his first "serious" relationship for a while, and he wasn't sure if it was because of the jitters of really getting married or what.He had only dated a couple of girls in high school prior to her, and neither of those relationships lasted. They were having a conversation when she asked him where he was headed with this and he burst into tears. A lack of "experience" with other people, he stated, made him nervous. If he did this, he wondered, would it be the correct thing to do.She said it plainly hurt that much to hear, yet she remained silent.<nbtemplate data-id="AdPlaceholder" data-content="JTdCJTdE"></nbtemplate>After avoiding the question for some time, he finally admitted that he had been considering the possibility of an open relationship between them. For the time being, at least.Her anxiety was so bad that she barely listened to the second half of the conversation. He assured her that he loved her and that he intended to marry her "no matter what," but before committing to one for the rest of his life, he wanted to find out what other people were like.He cried for the entirety of the conversation, and he kept telling her that the issue wasn't with her; rather, he simply desired to "experience" other people because he was never actually able to do so in the past. He said that if she were to consent to an open relationship, there would be a great deal of structure put in place to ensure everyone's well-being, and the arrangement as a whole would be quite secure.<nbtemplate data-id="AdPlaceholder" data-content="JTdCJTdE"></nbtemplate><blockquote>I feel like our relationship is ruined. I'm obviously not okay with an open relationship.</blockquote>She said, she didn't want to see any other people, but he assured her that she could. All she could see was him. She desired him exclusively. Her undying devotion was all for him. He assured her that if she said no, it was okay, and that he would understand and respect her wishes. But since he brought it up in the first place, if she says no, she will always wonder if he is in fact seeing other people.It has already begun to take place.<nbtemplate data-id="AdPlaceholder" data-content="JTdCJTdE"></nbtemplate>Surprisingly, a 2016 <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2016.1178675" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color:#4A90E2">study</a> found that more than 20% of American participants engaged in consensual non-monogamy (CNM). According to Tennesha Wood, dating expert and creator of the wedding planning website The Broom List, "open relationships can fall within a broad spectrum that depends on a couple's needs and their comfort level." An open relationship is one in which the partners are emotionally, romantically, and/or sexually available to others. This is a form of <a href="https://www.thezoereport.com/wellness/do-open-relationships-work" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color:#4A90E2">ethical non-monogamy</a> (ENM).She used to have entire faith in him, but now she wonders if he is seeing anybody else. Perhaps the reason he's bringing this up is because he cheated on her and wants an excuse now. Her thoughts are all over the place. She is at a loss on what to do. She told him she'd give it some thought and he hugged her. In fact, he held on for quite some time. She slept on the couch after telling him she needed to be alone that night.<nbtemplate data-id="AdPlaceholder" data-content="JTdCJTdE"></nbtemplate><blockquote>Any advice is so much appreciated.</blockquote>If you were his fiance, what would you have done?Author's noteThe theories and information discussed in this article are all entirely attributable to their respective sources, including thezoereport, tandfonline, reddit and verywellmind.Hello, I really hope you've enjoyed this article/story. I'm a freelance writer making ends meet for my family by any means necessary. Please consider making a little <a href="https://ko-fi.com/bellasmith" rel="noopener noreferrer" style="color:#4A90E2">donation</a> if you found this helpful or entertaining. Thank you so much.

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On Thursday, May 2, 2024, at 4:27 p.m., Santa Ana Police Department Communications received a call from a female who reported that her boyfriend stabbed her and her uncle, according to the SAPD .

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The Georgia Innocence Project (GIP) has announced that after serving 25 years, a Georgia man, Ray White, has been released from prison following a wrongful conviction in 1995. Per officials with the GIP, on July 5, 1994, a young woman was attacked at her home after weeks of harassing phone calls. Court testimony shows that she managed to escape and shoot at her attacker, who fled.

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Everyone aspires to be rich at a certain point in life. Some zodiac signs produce hard workers but poor financial managers. Studies indicate that spendthrifts struggle to save money. Some of them spend their salaries and go broke mid-month. They resort to borrowing loans from family members and friends to pay bills before they receive their next salary.

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Honesty is a virtue that some people lack. Some zodiac signs often lie to their loved ones to avoid disclosing some details or getting punished after making mistakes. Some individuals feel good when they lie. Yet, lying can make someone lose other people’s trust easily. Besides, it can put your life or someone else’s at risk.

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Kansas City, MO

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While it's just an old superstition that cats will steal your breath, you'll gasp when you see how cute these cats are. All are available from local, Kansas City shelters. Just click on the link to each cat to get in touch with their respective shelter.

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Scituate, MA

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The Scituate Animal Shelter of Massachusetts recently introduced Chewbacca, nicknamed Chewy, who they describe as a funny fella who loves everyone. “This adorable mutt is built like an oversized Shih Tzu and weighs 25 lbs. Since he was found as a stray and never claimed, we don't know much about his past.” Chewy has a personality as unique as his looks. "He is overly friendly with all, dogs included. He can come on a bit strong but in the kindest way. He wants everyone to be his friend!" states the Scituate Animal Shelter of Massachusetts, who is currently caring for Chewy until he finds his forever home.

Meet Chewbacca: The "Funny Fella" Looking For Love

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Birth assistant Dawn Marie Brown of Spokane County has been charged with misconduct for improperly caring for a patient, the Washington Department of Health reported on Monday.

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Have you ever heard of the phrase “cleanliness is next to Godliness?” Zodiac signs have different personalities. They have a close connection with our tendencies. Some people are clean and orderly while others are messy. An individual can decide to clean their home when they are expecting a visitor only.

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With all the crazy news we hear these days, it is understandable that people might feel helpless to make a difference. It's true that you might not be able to cure the ills of the world, but you can, quite easily in fact, make a huge, positive difference in the life of a cat. Best of all--you reap the rewards too.

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On the morning before Mother’s Day, the BEAR League staff found an unusual and heartwarming surprise on their doorstep: a very young bear cub left in a pet crate in the driveway. The cub, later named 'Moses,' was accompanied by a note explaining that he had no mother.

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Oakland, CA

The Oakland Police Department (OPD) is appealing to the public for any information regarding the tragic homicide of George Afakisi, which occurred on November 26, 2023. Afakisi, a beloved member of the community, was fatally shot around 7:00 p.m. in the 1900 block of Crosby Avenue while standing outside with friends.

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The Scituate Animal of Massachusetts recently introduced a 10-month-old lab named Finn who they describe as "the worlds biggest goofball". The local animal shelter explains that Finn "comes with some quirks but from what we've seen, is overall a friendly and goofy lab puppy". His friendly nature extends to his potential canine companions. In fact, the shelter believes it would be "hugely beneficial for Finn to live with a playful, larger dog so he can get some of his energy out appropriately."

Meet Finn: The Unique Goofball Looking For Love

Decluttering and learn how to let go of your clutter is about learning to navigate one of the biggest obstacles we face when we start our decluttering process. The art of letting go of anything can be hard whether it is physical or mental stuff. The first step is to identify why you don't want to let go of physical clutter and the tools to use to move beyond this.

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The Scituate Animal Shelter recently introduced Greta, a petite, mixed-breed pup with soulful eyes and a sweet, calm nature. According to the Scituate Animal Shelter, this tiny lady weighs in at just about 9 lbs and is approximately 5 years old.

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As a state certified special education teacher, I often help parents navigate the world of IEPs. If your child is struggling in school, you may have heard that an IEP can help. But before you rush into the school to ask for one of these, you should understand what they are and how they are used.

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Los Angeles, CA

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CALIFORNIA – A new study, published May 20, found that fluoride exposure can cause harm to a fetus if consumed during pregnancy – a critical period for brain development. According to the study, nearly three-quarters of the United States population receives drinking water that contains fluoride, a practice that began in 1945 that is said to help prevent tooth decay.

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People have varying observation skills. Some aren’t alert while others are keen on what happens around them. Being observant can save your life especially if an enemy or animal is stalking you. You can change your path or call for help. However, noting subtle changes in an environment or someone else is an innate ability.

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Nowadays, monogamy is often accepted as the norm in romantic relationships. If you find the one, you marry them. Next, a wedding is planned. There you have it! You've finally found the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. This could provide some solace as a happily ever after. This may not be a trap for some, but it may seem and feel like one to others. Open relationships are one of the alternatives available to those who feel constrained by monogamy.

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