My husband made my best friend pregnant and she is going to give birth to the baby

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An interview from a woman:

I, my husband, and my friend were high school classmates. At that time, my husband and my friend were in a relationship. However, my husband and I went to the same college while my friend went to another city.

During this time, my husband and I often met on Saturdays. My husband and my friend remained in love. As a result, my husband and my friend eventually broke up and established a romantic relationship with me.

In this matter, I have always felt that I owe my friend a lot. My friend hated me from then on.

After graduation, I wanted to look for work in the city where my college was, while my husband insisted on going back to the city where we grew up. After graduation, my friend went back to the city where we grew up, too.

I worried that my husband and my friend would be together again. As a result, I treated my husband more strictly and hurriedly married him. Unfortunately, during my pregnancy, my husband rekindled his relationship with my friend.

The current situation is: Our child is not yet one year old, my friend also gets pregnant. What's more, she decided to have the baby, and I didn't want to divorce.

Now, my husband is also very embarrassed about this matter. I do regret marrying my husband. I do not want to divorce, because our children are still very young. So I hate my husband so much now.

In the beginning, he took the initiative part with my friend and actively pursued me. I did not expect it is now a mess of the end. I am very confused, and I do not know how to face everything in front of us.

My analysis:

Your husband loves your best friend, and your best friend also likes your husband. The love between you and your husband is the product of your husband's loneliness. Your husband hurts you and your friend.

Your husband wants to be with your best friend together. Maybe knowing the pregnancy of your friend, your husband also advised her abortion, and your friend feels that only by retaining their children, she can re-win your husband to her side.

Your friend now may not love your husband, after all, your husband once hurt her. Perhaps your friend is now wanting to be a winner in this relationship involving three people so that you and your husband also taste the torture and pain.

Follow the secular convention: After a lover cheats, the person who gives way is a legitimate lover. Because a legitimate lover doesn't want to see the person he loves to be punished for the crime of bigamy.

But your real idea at the moment is that you don't want to get divorced. After all, your baby is young and you still love your husband. At this moment, your friend would consider that if you do not provoke the initiative to divorce your husband, a public opinion will put your friend out of breath, after the birth of her child.

Now, you are your husband's wife, so even if the event spreads to the public, your husband and your friend are the ones to blame. If you go to court, your husband will be convicted of bigamy. By then, even if your husband insists on divorce, he and your friend will be infamous.

Marriage is sacred after all, so you must be cautious when choosing. Once you have made a choice, even if you meet someone more attractive to you after marriage, don't get close to that person easily. Otherwise, the greedy person will have to pay a heavy price.