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Ah, cats. Those mysterious, aloof beings that grace our homes with their presence. We feed them, clean their litter, and sometimes, if we’re lucky, they let us pet them. But how do we know if our feline friends actually adore us?

Well, dear reader, it turns out cats have a whole repertoire of subtle signs that scream, "I love you!" You just have to know what to look for. So, let’s dive into the secret world of feline affection and decode those hidden signs your cat adores you.

Purring with Delight

One of the most delightful and common signs your cat adores you is their purr. While purring can mean many things, a soft, consistent purr often indicates contentment and affection. When your kitty curls up in your lap and starts purring, it's their way of saying, "I love you."

The Slow Blink

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Ever noticed your cat giving you a slow blink? This subtle gesture is a feline version of a kiss. Cats only slow blink at those they trust and love. So, the next time your cat gives you that dreamy-eyed look, return the favor with a slow blink of your own.

Head Butts and Nuzzles

Cats mark their territory with scent glands located on their heads. When your cat head-butts or nuzzles you, they are marking you as theirs. This behavior is a strong sign of affection and trust.

Following You Everywhere

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If your cat shadows you from room to room, they genuinely enjoy your company. This behavior shows they feel safe and secure around you.

Bringing Gifts

While not everyone appreciates a "gift" of a dead mouse, in the cat world, this is a high compliment. It indicates they see you as part of their family and want to share their bounty with you.

Kneading You

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Kneading, or "making biscuits," is a behavior cats carry from kittenhood. When they knead you, they associate you with comfort and safety.

Tail Tells All

A cat's tail is highly expressive. If it’s upright with a slight curve at the top, it means they’re happy to see you. A quivering tail is an even more enthusiastic sign of affection.

Belly Up

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Cats are protective of their bellies. If your cat shows you their tummy, it means they trust you completely.

Chatty Catty

Some cats are more vocal than others. If your cat engages in "conversations" with you through meows and chirps, they are expressing their love and seeking your attention.

Sleeping on You

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Cats are vulnerable when they sleep. If your cat chooses to nap on you, it’s a sign they trust you implicitly and find comfort in your presence.

Understanding Your Cat's Affection

Cats might be subtle in their expressions of love, but once you know what to look for, the signs are unmistakable. From slow blinks and head butts to purrs and grooming, your cat has a myriad of ways to show they adore you.

So, the next time your feline friend gives you a slow blink or curls up next to you for a nap, know that it’s their way of saying, "I love you."

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2. Scott, J (n.d.) 12 WAYS TO TELL IF YOUR CAT LOVES YOU. Rawz Natural Pet Food. https://rawznaturalpetfood.com/does-my-cat-love-me/