Entertainment TV Bethenny Frankel Says She and Fiancé Paul Bernon Are Not 'Rushing' Wedding Planning: 'We Are Happy' "We're being in the moment," Bethenny Frankel said By Dory Jackson Dory Jackson Dory Jackson is an Associate Editor for PEOPLE's digital TV team. While at the brand, she's had the opportunity to interview a long list of celebrities, from Kate Hudson to Pierce Brosnan to Billy Porter. She has also helped recap popular TV shows like 'The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills,' 'Sister Wives' and 'Vanderpump Rules.' The New York-based Maryland native graduated from Randolph-Macon College in May 2016 with a focus on Communication Studies and Journalism. She came to PEOPLE in March 2021 after working at a number of major news companies, including Newsweek and Us Weekly. People Editorial Guidelines Published on March 23, 2022 01:52PM EDT Paul Bernon and Bethenny Frankel. Photo: Bethenny Frankel/Instagram Bethenny Frankel and fiancé Paul Bernon aren't in a rush to head down the aisle. In an interview with Entertainment Tonight, the 51-year-old Real Housewives of New York City alum gave an update on the couple's wedding planning process. "We are happy with where we are. We're honestly just so happy that we're being in the moment," Frankel. "I mean, you know, I'm not a spring chicken, so it's not like we're rushing." Though planning the special day might not be top of mind right now, Frankel does know how big she wants the gathering to be. "I would definitely, definitely do small," she added. Bethenny Frankel Shares Valentine's Day Celebration with Fiancé Paul Bernon: 'About Last Night' Frankel's comments come after she opened up about the challenges of balancing the things she cherishes most in life. "Sometimes it's hard to fit it all in: work, family, the world, relationships and overall balance," she wrote on Instagram alongside a photo of the engaged couple. "Romantic time becomes increasingly more precious. It's important to go back to center, to connect and to nurture what is important," she shared. "Without supporting that strong foundation, it all crumbles." Frankel began dating the film producer in 2018 after meeting on a dating app. PEOPLE confirmed in March 2021 that Frankel and Bernon were engaged. Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. The businesswoman later described the proposal as an "intimate" moment for the couple. "Just the two of us, on an island off of Florida," she told PEOPLE. "No makeup, no manicure, no ring photos. It was very simple and beautiful." RELATED VIDEO: Bethenny Frankel Met Fiancé Paul Bernon on a Dating App: 'He Came Better Than Advertised' Previously, Frankel raved about how "wonderful" Bernon is. "He's a good person who I love," she told PEOPLE in 2019. "I don't know if it's a yin to my yang, but he's really relaxed, he's mellow and he's very, very funny." Frankel shares her 11-year-old daughter, Bryn, with her ex-husband Jason Hoppy. The former couple entered a rocky divorce battle after their 2012 split, though their separation was officially finalized in January.