Be Your Own Valentine: 44 Self-Care Gifts to Spoil Yourself With

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Say what you will about Valentine's Day, but who doesn't love a sweet, thoughtful gift? Sure, receiving them is great, but we also believe in doing nice things for yourself—whether that's baking your favorite treat or finally splurging on the necklace you can't get out of your head.

It may be a term we hear plenty, but self-care truly is critical to your well-being: Research finds that carving out "me time"—like journaling, signing up for a yoga class, or getting a good night's sleep—is the key to being happier and healthier.

This Valentine's Day, stock up on a few essentials that will help you try some new-to-you healing rituals. From relaxing bubble bath formulas to a meditation candle, these presents will keep you present, rejuvenated, centered, and well.

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Block Shop Hand Block Printed Linen Robe

Hopie Stockman, the founder of Block Shop, designs punchy, statement robes using 100 percent Belgian linen sourced from fifth-generation master printers in Jaipur. With each purchase, Block Shop contributes five percent of profits towards their biannual Community Health Camps in Jaipur—which makes this a self-care gift that also cares for others.

Buy on Blockshoptextiles.com $195

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KostaBoda Meadow Vase

The abstract patterns on these delicate glass vases come from a technique that requires rolling each vase in chips of colored glass during production—meaning no two are alike (just like the flowers they hold).

Buy on Kostaboda.us $75

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Adult Paint-by-Numbers Kit

Relax into the creative process with a vibrant paint-by-numbers kit. The intricate shapes reveal a landscape of mountains and flowers in bright shades of green, orange, and pink.

Buy on Anthropologie $52

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Martha Stewart Winter Wine Trio

Martha curated this three-pack that pairs perfectly with cold nights and comfort food. Bottles include a 2020 Ishara Pinot Noir, a 2022 Sacred Hill Sauvignon Blanc, and a 2021 Ylirum Tempranillo.

Buy on Wineinsiders.com $69

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Maison Cashmere Joggers

Feel like you're curled up under your coziest blanket all day long by donning a pair of pure cashmere joggers made in Italy. Ribbed cuffs, a slim fit, and a drawstring waist mean the pants are as stylish as they are comfortable.

Buy on Maisoncashmere.com $187

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Lemon Lavender Doughnut Baking Mix

Treat yourself to a dozen homemade homemade donuts, glazed with a sweet-tart lemon icing and a sprinkle of dried lavender. This easy DIY kit makes the process as enjoyable as the finished product.

Buy on Farmsteady.com $25

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Ceremonia Microfiber Hair Towel

Make hairwashing day easier with this hair towel, which absorbs water and prevents frizz or breakage. A convenient tie holds the towel in place, so you can wear it as you cycle through other parts of your self-care routine—whether that's tidying up your room or reading a good book.

Buy on Ceremonia.com $32

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Lollia In Love, Dream and This Moment Bubble Bath Trio

There's nothing quite like soaking in a hot tub after a long day. Elevate the already-great experience with this bubble bath set, which brings soothing, skin-nourishing avocado and olive oils to the ritual. It doesn't hurt that the bottles are beautiful—so go ahead and display them on your vanity even if you don't have a bath planned for tonight.

Buy on Margotelena.com $160

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Sheldon Ceramics Farmhouse Latte Mug

Sip tea, coffee, or soup from this wide, 13-ounce mug. The dishwasher- and microwave-safe pieces are hand-thrown and made to order in nine different glaze hues.

Buy on Sheldonceramics.com $40

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Naked Cashmere Love Socks

Soft to the touch, these cashmere socks are a luxurious Valentine's Day gift (we love the embroidered hearts!). Go ahead and treat yourself to their cozy warmth and comfort.

Buy on Nakedcashmere.com $115

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Tenoverten The Tool Kit

This clean, comprehensive nail kit, which includes five essential, professional-grade tools in an elegant case, will help you craft the perfect at-home manicure.

Buy on Tenoverten.com $198

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Silked Pillow Sleeve and Eye Mask Set

The smooth fabric of this silk pillow cover prevents hair snags, tangles, and friction—and since silk isn't as absorbent as cotton, hair and skin care products stay where they belong. The accompanying mulberry silk eye mask reduces creases and fine lines around your eyes while providing just the right darkness for a dreamy night's sleep.

Buy on Silked.co $99

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Nuface Mini+ Facial Toning Device Starter Kit

Give yourself the gift of sculpted cheekbones and a firmer jawline with this microcurrent device, which is an esthetician and celebrity favorite.

Buy on Mynuface.com $250

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Martha's Strawberry Ombre Cake

Do you have a sweet tooth? Then you will love Martha's famous Ombre Strawberry Cake, which you can buy on Goldbelly. The vanilla sponge cake has layers of strawberry Swiss buttercream and a pink ombré hue—talk about the perfect Valentine's Day color palette.

Buy on Goldbelly.com $120

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Inside Then Out Better Everyday Journal

The Better Every Day Journal makes it easy to jot down your thoughts with 365 guided prompts that are meant to promote self-love, reflection, and growth. Though the company also offers a paper version, this downloadable PDF option lets you trade evening doomscrolling for thoughtful, digital reflection.

Buy on Insidethenout.com $20

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Valerie Valentine's Day Gift Set

If you love chocolate, you'll want to gift yourself this set on February 14. It is filled with truffles, hot chocolate, and two chocolate bars.

Buy on Valerieconfections.com $100

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Trudon Cire "Josephine" Candle

Burn this candle and feel transported to a faraway garden filled with heady, intoxicating scents of bergamot, jasmine, sandalwood, and white musk.

Buy on Trudon.com $125

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Dr. Barbara Sturm Super Anti-Aging Neck and Décolleté Cream

Dr. Barbara Sturm Super Anti-Aging Neck and Decollete Cream — Courtesy of Dr. Sturm

You probably have your complexion covered, which is what makes this neck and décolleté cream such a wonderful self-care gift. It's that extra step you probably wouldn't invest in at any other point in the year—but it makes a major difference, so go ahead and splurge.

Buy on Drsturm.com $255

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Maison Francis Kurkdjian Baccarat Rouge 540 Eau de Parfum

This sophisticated fragrance will become your signature scent, thanks to radiant notes of jasmine, saffron, cedarwood, and ambergris.

Buy on Franciskurkdjian.com $325

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3rd Ritual BEL Meditation Candle

3rd Ritual Meditation Candle — Courtesy of Standard Dose

Have you recently picked up meditation? This candle set will help you stay present during each session; the pin drops when the wax melts down, signaling the end of the ritual.

Buy on 3rdritual.com $175

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Sania's Brow Bar Angled Mechanical Brow Pencil

Thanks to these expert-grade tools (send yourself all three!), you can tweeze, shape, and fill in your brows with ease. The pencil—an editor favorite—will help you define your arches.

Buy on Saniasbrowbar.com $30

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Charlotte Tilbury Cryo-Recovery Depuffing Eye Serum

This serum's caffeine complex reduces dark circles and puffiness, so you can start each morning with your best face forward.

Buy on Charlottetilbury.com $70

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Wolf & Badger Sheepskin Curly Hot Water Bottle Cover

A shearling cover slips over unsightly rubber water bottles and makes using one (to soothe aches and pains) more comfortable.

Buy on Wolfandbadger.com $80

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Papier x Mother of Pearl Wellness Journal

Papier x Mother of Pearl "Yellow Buttercups" Journal — Courtesy of Papier

If journaling is a key part of your self-care routine, you'll appreciate this cheerful notebook, which offers sections for weekly, monthly, and yearly overviews. Plus, there's extra room for goal-setting and dreaming.

Buy on Papier.com $35

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Ouai "Melrose Place" Body Cleanser

This gently-scented body wash leads to smoother, more hydrated skin. It is made complete with nourishing jojoba seed oil and rosehip oil.

Buy on Theouai.com $28

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Beast Blender in Cloud White

With this innovative blender—which looks sleek on a countertop—you can whip up all of your favorite wellness recipes, from soups to smoothies.

Buy on Crate & Barrel $195

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Bread Beauty Hair Oil

Sans silicones and residue, this hair gloss softens and moisturizes strands. This Bread Beauty Supply product is also great to use after a hair mask rinse-out or between washes for added shine.

Buy on Breadbeautysupply.com $24

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Maison Storage Bath Caddy

Upgrade bath time with this caddy, which holds a glass of wine, book, soaking salts, and small speaker with ease.

Buy on Anthropologie $168

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Augustinus Bader The Lip Balm

Amino acids and high-grade vitamins combine in this nourishing lip balm that feels more like a mask. The colorless formula leaves a moisturizing sheen—not a sticky gloss.

Buy on Augustinusbader.com $42

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Fridays From the Garden Cookbook

Martha penned the forward for this cookbook, which spotlights the farm-to-table recipes at the lauded Flamingo Estate.

Buy on Flamingoestate.com $78

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Fur Bath Drops

These vegan bath beads are encased in seaweed and offer a nourishing blend of oils once they melt in warm water.

Buy on Furyou.com $38

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Shandell Fireplace Matches

Making a fire in a hearth warms the body and the spirit. Get yourself through cold winter nights with these chic matches housed in a marble paper cup sealed by glass (the striker is on the bottom!).

Buy on Reedsmythe.com $162

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REFY Gloss Highlighter

This subtle highlighter will help you look (and feel) your best. It's luminous, not sparkly.

Buy on Sephora $22

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Liberty Puzzle "Palisade Peach Basket"

Put the screens down and enjoy some peaceful time with a puzzle. Liberty Puzzles mounts exquisite images, from botanical illustrations to vintage European travel posters, onto Oregon-sourced plywood, then laser-cuts them into unique, intricate patterns that are good for the mind and soul.

Buy on Libertypuzzles.com $95

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Martha Stewart Puffy Vest

Martha Stewart Quilted Down Short Sleeve Puffer Jacket in Navy — Courtesy of Amazon

This vest, from Martha's personal collection, feels like a hug. Is there really a better self-care gift than that?

Buy on Amazon $42

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Margaux "The Crew" Sock in Poppy

These whimsical socks keep your feet warm and will look adorable peeking out of the top of your favorite boots.

Buy on Margauxny.com $9

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Klur Supreme Seed Delicate Purification Mask

If you have sensitive skin, but still crave a deep, purifying clean, gift yourself this antioxidant-rich mask.

Buy on Klur.co $60

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May Cabas Grand Bicycle Picnic Basket

May Cabas Bicycle Picnic Basket — Courtesy of May Cabas

If you are looking forward to spring—and more picnics with friends—you'll appreciate this bike basket, which is large enough to store snacks, a bottle of wine, and more.

Buy on Maycabas.com $175

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Olio E Osso Lip & Cheek Tinted Balm

A swipe or two across your lips and cheeks, and you have pulled together your beauty look. This formula is compatible with dry, mature, sensitive, blemish-prone, combination, and normal skin.

Buy on Ulta $28

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Kindred Black Apothecary Revive Facial Oil

Every product from Kindred Black's apothecary is gift-worthy—formulas come in one-of-a-kind hand-blown glass vessels sealed with wax—but we're partial to this face oil, featuring vitamin-rich prickly pear seed oil, cell-stimulating cucumber seed oil, and anti-inflammatory green coffee bean oil.

Buy on Kindredblack.com $225

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Wwake Short Pearl Shower Earrings

A pair of dainty pearl earrings is a surefire way to make yourself feel special. These freshwater pearls are attached to a sparkling gold chain for a chic, modern look.

Buy on Wwake.com $210

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Drunk Elephant F-Balm Electrolyte Waterfacial Mask

This mask's four-electrolyte blend replenishes your complexion's moisture barrier and plumps your skin overnight.

Buy on Sephora $54

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Baloo Weighted Blanket

This weighted blanket goes beyond most models on the market—it can be incorporated directly into your bed set (it has loops, which coordinate with your duvet cover).

Buy on Baloo $179

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Bella Notte "Ines" Duvet Cover

Created in California, Bella Notte's linens are dyed in small batches and made to order, resulting in the most beautiful colorways, and, of course, unparalleled softness.

Buy on Bellanottelinens.com $1,177

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