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DEAR BONNIE: I love your column, and it has given me insight. I am trying to figure out what kind of gift I have.

Ever since I was 16, I have recalled a woman always whispering my name as if she is trying to get my attention. I was afraid then and would not answer her and run away. I am older now and through the years have had many more experiences. There was one instance where I was looking into a mirror in our entryway in our home while doing my hair and I saw a woman that looked like she was from the 1800s based on what she was wearing and her hairstyle. As I looked directly at her, she disappeared.

In another instance, I saw what appeared to be a woman walking toward me; she had an eternal white light glowing from the white clothing that she was wearing. I watched her as she walked into my mother’s room. At first, I thought it was my mom, but I found my mom was asleep on the couch when I ran into the living room to find out. I quickly realized I had seen a spirit.

At my family restaurant where I work, I have seen shadows running by — even a woman singing a song. I also can see images of past lives as I blink, and the images flit across my eyes. Clear as day, I can see a vision of a video or picture. I do not want to sound crazy, but would like your opinion of what could be happening. I need to find out what this is and what to do with the visions I am seeing. Thanks. — Kate

DEAR KATE: Wow, your story sounds just like my childhood. Seeing clearly into the spirit world and being able to see spirits and even past lives are known as clairvoyance or clear seeing. You described exactly how some with clairvoyance see into the spirit world. Some mediums see videos playing like little movies that they watch inside their minds and then relay what the person in the spirit world was trying to get across to their client by watching those videos. Some see objects — sometimes one object right after another — and can put a story together using those images.

The story of the visitor glowing in white, which you thought was your mom, sounds almost like an experience I had happen to me. I was lying in bed one night while I was young and still living at home when I saw a woman standing in the doorway of my bedroom. I started to yell mom, mom, mom but the lady who I thought was my mom didn’t answer. However, soon my mom came in and asked me why I was yelling?

Thinking back, the figure looked so much like my mom because I realized it was my grandmother in spirit watching over me. Your lady might be your grandmother or even a guide or angel. When the spirit world knows you can see them, the experience starts to happen more and often.

It truly is a gift to see the spirit world as it provides proof that life is eternal, and we are a part of the bigger picture. That is why we also can sometimes see past lives as well. A great way to get in touch with our past lives and to make visions stronger is to do meditations and ask the spirit world to show you what you need to know.

I love my gift of seeing, and I hope you genuinely use your gift to help yourself through this life as well as others. Enjoy and embrace your gifts of clear seeing and clear hearing (like hearing the women singing) because it truly is a gift. To learn more, find a teacher or mentor who can help you develop your gifts. When you know more about developing the gifts you have, you will also learn how to control when and where they happen.

Bonnie Page is a psychic medium and spiritual life coach. She is the owner of Mystical Magical Marketplace and Messages from Heaven located in downtown Winchendon. If you would like to ask Bonnie a question for her column, contact her at www.bonniepagemedium.com under the “Ask Bonnie” Question tab. To book a session, call her office at 978-297-9790.