8 Ways to Be More Optimistic

You don’t have to let negative news cycles bring you down. Here are some simple steps you can take to boost your outlook.

photo illustration of woman stepping over boundary
As with many things in life, baby steps toward a more hopeful attitude can add up to a big leap forward.Klaus Vedfelt/GettyImages; Everyday Health

It’s a tough time for optimism.

In the United States, the headlines are dominated by economic worries, cultural divides and a contentious political cycle that never seems to end. Climate crisis alarms are ringing nonstop with reports of famine, floods, forest fires, and extreme heat. Globally, war and humanitarian crises roar on.

The doom and gloom can weigh pretty heavily. One indicator: Research shows our collective mental health has taken a dip since the start of the COVID-19 pandemic.

According to surveys conducted by the Pew Research Center, at least 2 out of 5 U.S. adults experienced high levels of emotional distress at least once between March of 2020 and September of 2022.

The American Psychological Association (APA) reported in October of 2022 that more than one-third of people felt completely overwhelmed by stress most days, according to an APA-commissioned Harris Poll survey of more than 3,000 American adults. And three-quarters said stress has had an impact on their health, causing problems including headaches and fatigue.

But the good news is there are practical steps to feeling more optimistic, and the reasons to take them are manifold. Research has linked optimism to numerous positive health outcomes, like lower risk of mood disorders and mental illness, improved physical health, and even better problem-solving skills.

RELATED: Tips for Showing Yourself Some Self-Compassion

Improving your outlook is not about ignoring the bad or pretending those things aren’t happening; it’s about taking steps to actively see the positive in a situation.

Here are eight tips from experts on how to be more optimistic.

1. Remember That Optimism Doesn’t Mean Ignoring the Negative

Optimism doesn’t mean focusing only on the bright side when truly awful things are happening.

Eranda Jayawickreme, PhD, the Harold W. Tribble professor of psychology at Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, who researches positive change after adversity, says it’s important to acknowledge reality, even when reality isn’t so great. “Take a step back and say, ‘Okay, this is where I am,’” he says. “I accept the challenges I'm faced with. I'm not going to minimize them.”

According to the APA, the definition of optimism is “hopefulness: the attitude that good things will happen and that people’s wishes or aims will ultimately be fulfilled.” Optimism flows from your attitude, which is something you can change over time.

2. Start Small

When you first wake up in the morning, ask yourself: “What might go really well today?” suggests Seth Gillihan, PhD, a clinical psychologist and the author of Mindful Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: A Simple Path to Healing, Hope, and Peace.

If you focus on just one or two good things around you — fresh air, the smell of a good cup of coffee, or your favorite pillow — you will tune your brain in to the positive.

Another approach is gratitude, the practice of thinking about and appreciating pleasant or beneficial circumstances. Several studies have found that gratitude practices like keeping a gratitude journal or writing a letter of gratitude can lead to a more positive mood, according to a white paper published in 2018 by the University of California in Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center. Not that a gratitude practice has to be a lofty or effortful endeavor like writing, Dr. Gillihan says. Start with just noticing things you like or that are going well.

RELATED: What Psychologists Do in the Morning to Set Themselves Up for a Good Day

3. Know What’s In and What’s Out of Your Control

It's important to let go of what you can't control and thus can't change, Dr. Jayawickreme says. Identifying what you can change is an important step on the road to feeling more positive.

There are two big areas of control that researchers like Jayawickreme study: primary control (all the things you can change in the world around you) and secondary control (the internal changes you can make to shift how you feel about your circumstances).

When you make changes in either area — primary or secondary — and those changes start to make your environment or outlook better, you feel more optimistic about your future, Jayawickreme says.

4. Be Mindful of Media Consumption: Both the News and Your Instagram Feed

“Stop comparing yourself to people on social media,” says Sara Battista, a licensed professional counselor in private practice in Washington, DC, and the founder of Greenhouse Psychotherapy. Remember that the images you see are edited and curated. They aren’t necessarily a reflection of reality.

Too much time spent with these unrealistic pictures can lead to what’s called “future tripping,” which Battista describes as an endless rabbit hole of worrying that you’ll never be enough or never end up being as great as someone else you’re comparing yourself with.

Tuning in to the news isn’t the best thing for your mental health, either, says Jennice Vilhauer, PhD, a psychologist in private practice in Los Angeles and the author of Think Forward to Thrive, who developed a psychotherapy method she calls future-directed therapy, which helps people identify self-limiting beliefs about their future and teaches strategies for overcoming them.

That’s not to say you shouldn’t stay informed about local and world events, but if you find that you’re worrying a lot about the news, it’s healthy and appropriate to put boundaries around your time, Battista says.

RELATED: Is Social Media Busting or Boosting Your Stress?

5. Change the Conversation

Do you find yourself in the same fights over and over again with family members or friends about things like politics and social issues? These kinds of conversations, where there’s more heat than light, usually aren’t worth the negative emotional fallout.

According to Gillihan, you can say something like, “I don't know about you, but I don't feel like these conversations are very productive. You're not changing my mind. I'm not changing your mind. Maybe we can talk about other things?” With any luck, that will put an end to it.

6. Think More About What You Want Than What You Don’t Want

Remember, you have the power to decide where to focus your energy, Dr. Vilhauer says. “If you think about what you don’t want, you’re going to get more of what you don’t want, which is a lot of negative emotion.”

On the other hand, she says, any positive behavior (like making a donation, volunteering, or thinking about something you’re grateful for) is going to help you think more positively, as is being solutions-oriented.

People can get really bogged down in a things-are-never-going-to-get-better attitude, Vilhauer adds. She says she likes to remind her clients: “Problems always give birth to solutions and solutions do come, even if it takes a while.”

So spend that time thinking about what you want for the future rather than what didn’t go right in the past.

7. Don’t Put Too Much Pressure on Yourself

We love redemption narratives, says Jayawickcreme: stories in which bad things happen but we emerge changed for the better. But the downside is we sometimes put pressure on ourselves to see adversity as something that happened for a reason, he says. Don’t rush to find some big life lesson while you’re in the middle of a significant change. Go easy on yourself.

Thinking more optimistically is all about taking small steps today and tomorrow to point you in a more positive direction.

8. Don’t Get Hung Up on the How, What, or Why — Just Do It

The more you practice optimism, the easier it will get. But that doesn’t mean you need to muscle yourself back into it if you’ve been in a rut of negativity.

Optimism doesn’t actually require “penance” or a lot of makeup work to get back to some ideal state, says Gillihan. “It’s about the direction you're going,” he explains. “Imagine optimism as a parallel track that’s always right next to you. You don’t have to do a lot of work to get back on the right path. Just take one step.”