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‘Ask Culture’ Vs. ‘Guess Culture’ — Knowing These Two Terms Is A Game-Changer

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I grew up in an environment that forced me to learn to read other people’s moods; it was also best to be aware of the situation that was causing said moods, too. I developed a strong intuition for how to get what I needed or wanted, but it was rarely because I was good at asking direct questions. Instead, I followed the lead of family members and would simply make statements that I hoped (or suspected) would get a response in my favor.